Well thanks.

I even manage to do it with a husband who deploys all the time (he actually left yesterday for 5 weeks). Personally I think motherhood is as hard or as easy as you want to make it - like a lot of things in life.
Yep I might have to wait to do my nails, or check e-mail, but there's no reason why I can't - or shouldn't - have time for myself, or time in the evening for just me and my husband.
I have a friend with 6 kids and she does the martyr act. She also has *no* friends. It's her choice to do this, to be with the kids 24/7. I personally would find it really hard to do that.
I have 3 kids - age 4 yrs old, age 2.8 yrs old, and 7 months. I would be *insane* if all I did was hang out with them. Lol. Sure they need me *a lot* but that doesn't mean I can't still be me. JMO opinion anyway.